A Friend for Life - Adopting Responsibly
We don’t blame you – it’s not easy to hear news of over-crowded pet shelters, see advertisements of despondent puppies, or avert your eyes as you walk through an adoption event at the entrance of your local pet store. Animal lovers have the biggest hearts, and we can always stretch to fit in one more, right?
We’re all about finding homes for every down-and-out doggie, promoting adoption over pet stores and breeders, but adding a furry family member is a cherished yet careful and consequential choice. The best matches are made with a little extra purpose and planning.
Why is Adoption Awesome?
Pet adoption is best-in-show for saving lives, supporting our communities and non-profits, and discouraging overbreeding. Yet only around 25% of dogs join families from a shelter. The American Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals (ASPCA) reports the sad reality that over 3 million pups enter shelters each year, and approximately a third of those are euthanized.
But beneath these heavy statistics, animal shelters are mines full of diamonds in the rough. Beyond a few tangles, fleas, and snaggle teeth are marvelous mutts asking for safety and security. While there are plenty of purebreds to be found, mixed breeds are often healthier and live longer than their pedigreed cousins. Beyond the cute exterior, shelter dogs are still man’s best friend, with lots of life and love to share.
The benefits of pet adoption go beyond patronage and philanthropy, though; there are many practical and tangible benefits to seeking your sidekick from a shelter. Adult dogs typically cost less and are often housetrained and better-behaved. Unlike shiny new puppies, more mature dogs offer a more predictable personality, showing their quirks up front.
The Careful Adopter’s Checklist
Like most major life decisions, bringing home a new dog requires a balance of assessments, adjustments, and arrangements to choose what is best. Following these steps will help to set your perspectives and priorities for a perfect puppy pairing:
Step 1: Assessment
First on the list of considerations is your personality and lifestyle. Your work arrangement, free time, and activity level are essential considerations when determining the right age, breed, and temperament of your pup. Do you love to pamper and dote on a needier pet or prefer a more independent and confident canine? Are you sensitive to pet fur and dander? (Quick tip: look for a “hypoallergenic” dog with a wire coat and less shedding).
Also assess your environment – do you live in the wide-open country or the concrete jungle? Do you have a fenced yard or is astroturf the only green in your neighborhood? Closer to home, consider the noise and traffic level of your household and whether you have children and/or other pets. Are you a neat-freak or germophobe, or do you have expensive taste in furniture and décor? Take stock of how attached you are to the ambience of your abode.
The atmosphere and dynamics of your home have a lot to say on finding the right fit. Puppies and some high-drive breeds have a lot of energy, require more time, and can be destructive. If a quiet couch-warmer and slow, peaceful strolls are more your mojo, take a second glance at older dogs looking for respite in their golden years.
Step 2: Adjustment
Once you’ve listed your major criteria and done your research on characteristics to look for in your potential pup, it’s time to reflect on what adjustments might be necessary in your lifestyle, home, and environment. Maybe your current setup doesn’t sync with the age or type of dog you have your heart set on, or you’re looking to make personal changes along with some cute and cuddly inspiration. If so, honestly think through past experiences and be careful with making too many changes at once. Remember that your decision involves another life, and adoption should be a solid commitment.
Also be sure to adjust your expectations. If this is your first time adopting a dog, take your time and become more familiar with the ways and whims of canines. Pet sit for your friends, visit dog parks and observe, or volunteer at a pet shelter. Dogs are delightful 99% of the time, but any pet owner can share stories of destroyed family heirlooms, overnight puke-a-thons, and that one pesky habit your pup never outgrows.
Step 3: Arrangement
Ok, so you’ve prepared your mind and your heart, and the search is on for your new best friend. While some parts of pet ownership are implemented as you go, there are important arrangements to think through and set up ahead of your dog’s homecoming. As you thought through the adjustments in your household and day-to-day life, you should have noted the necessary additions and subtractions to fit a new pup into your flow.
Realistically think through both the temporary and permanent alterations in your schedule to provide the time and attention that your dog will need. Walks, potty breaks, training, play, and outlets for socialization should each find a slot in your days and weeks. If you travel, identify a safe & sound place for boarding. If your fuzzball will need regular grooming, locate a good stylist to tame your pup’s mane.
Many animal adoption agencies will ask for a veterinary reference, so find a great vet, schedule a visit, and ask questions about routine costs. Set line items in your financial budget for pet food, treats, grooming, and vet care. Optimal pet health starts with high-quality nutrition, so premium foods and supplements are typically worth their price.
Resist Rehoming
Responsible pet adoption goes beyond doing your up-front homework and putting plans in place; the goal is lifelong companionship and mutual rewards. Overcrowded shelters reflect not only collected strays, but a significant number of dogs relinquished by capable owners. The ASPCA’s National Rehoming Survey cites “problem behavior” as the chief reason that owners give up their pets. About half of shelter drop-offs are related to irritating or unmanageable dog deeds, beating out housing limitations or family reasons. Lack of time and money are other common complaints.
We’ve anticipated each of these reasons in our responsible adoption checklist. It’s not far-fetched to propose that pet retention could be greatly enhanced with more careful assessment, adjustment, and arrangement:
- Behavior – Honestly gauge your lifestyle and family dynamics and find the best fit in terms of age, social needs, and energy level
- Housing – Match your perfect pup with the size, location, and accommodations of your pad. If you live in an apartment or are part of an HOA, double-check that your breed’s in compliance
- Family – Bring the whole family for a meet & greet at the shelter. If you’re looking to grow your tribe, decide now whether a dog is still part of your family photograph
- Time – Plan for generous amounts of time to care for, train, and enjoy your dog. Pets are meant to bring joy and increase your quality of life; don’t let that delight turn into drudgery
- Money – Do your research on pet care costs and don’t spend your buddy’s budget unless it’s an emergency. If your financial situation is rocky, save up or have patience until you’re able to give your dog the best care he needs
Should you adopt? Absolutely! With your head, your heart, your home, and your horizon in the right place, go find your new best friend.






